Why would she deny it if I ask? If I make her so miserable why stay.
Hi Ozman, for the same reason people wait to get an offer letter at a new job before leaving the old one. I've had multiple women ask me to be their boyfriend *while in an existing relationship*. They didn't want to leave their current partner unless and until they felt financially and emotionally supported elsewhere.
Originally Posted by "Ozman"
Also is going to wedding at the casino a bad idea. I could probably go unnoticed. If she is in A I want proof..
It sounds like a bad idea since you said an EA wouldn't be the end for you. If she dances with someone, will that make you feel any better or your mind any more certain? If detected, you play the paranoid husband, or the controlling ex who just can't understand "It's over" and that now she's free to do what she wants.
