I absolutely do think he speaks to me in his love language. And I have spoken to him in every single love language and I still don’t know which it is, I think words of affirmation may be right.
I was glad to help, because that’s what I do. He told me when I came through for the tooth thing that I really outdid myself and he was so appreciative . And I went and saw them after our rounds and visit for a bit. I sat down next to him and he put his hand on mine. We then had a late lunch together at the hospital when she was in surgery and I sat with him for a bit in the waiting area. He seemed appreciative, receptive and also kissed me. He is going away because his brother comes home from his business trip tomorrow. She came out of surgery well and should be going home shortly.
I realized what upset my sooooo much. It wasn’t that I wasn’t going to see him. I really wanted to, but that wasn’t why I was so upset. It was how fast he blew me off without seeming to care he wasn’t going to see me. If he would have said “ I have so much going on this week, I don’t know I can it, but I really want to see you too and I will try my best” I would have been disappointed rather than hurt. I just needed to know he wanted to. When it felt like he couldn’t care less, that’s what hurt me so bad.
Anyways, I’m going to leave this in the past and let him just go on vacation and be peaceful. He needs this. Maybe he will miss me and be anxious to spend some time with me when he gets home. We will work this out. It seems as if we have forgiven and forgotten and moving forward.
