God damn it I keep messing up!!!!!🤬 I had a sales meeting out of town which went really well so I thought I’d call in at home on the way back to the office. She had a friend around for coffee and just said “Checking up on me?”. Completely backfired! Probably doesn’t help I asked who she was messaging last night which turned into a full blown discussion (thankfully not an argument) about the OM and how she’s not in contact with him. The sad thing was I’d decided to stop the distrust and just roll with it. I was genuinely calling in to say hi and give her good news ☹️
This is what you should have done with the phone call:
Her: "Hello?"
You: "Hey its me! Just wanted to call to let you know that I am super stoked about the sales meeting I just left. It went really well. I sold them X for a hefty profit, and it will translate into a great commission! Anyway, don't want to keep you from what you were doing, just wanted to share. Gotta run, talk later!"
Then hang-up.
My guess you called. She answered. Her hello sounded like "What do you want?" to your ears. That made you start asking what she was doing. Made her feel checked up on. You double-down on pressure and pursuit by asking who she was messaging last night.
Hello Gomez, let me introduce you to DBing....because the quoted post above IS NOT IT.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
