Daily rollercoaster of emotions

[peacetoday]

You will get many mixed signals because your H is confused and probably has a lot of conflict about leaving

I think most MLCers would love to keep their secret lives, and come home and converse with the family like nothing happened
(keep us as plan B) while they explore
after all they do still care for us- but the oW and the highs it brings hormonally and otherwise have their full attention
but Im sure many have second thoughts especially if the things are getting less exciting with OW or there is conflict there-

I would not pay attention to anything he does or says-
as long as he is living with OW and not making serious movement back to you
I would let it go- and continue on-
This touch and goes can last for many years-

Sometimes, a mlcer will circle back around
I have a friend that her MLCer has tried to get her back for many years while he is living with his 3rd OW
and my friend has no desire to be with a man of his nature-and has refused him several times as he would be cheating on his current girl-

I know it is tempting to read into their behavior and have done so myself-
but maybe if you can establish a co parenting friendship fun and cordial that would be your best option at this time-

all the best,