I tried a lot of strategies to try to get him back-nothing worked It was a very painful time
Even though you are not Married, I would get some legal advice many attorneys will do a free initial consult and during that free hour, they usually will let you know your options i found it so empowering to know that me and my kids would be ok financially and I actually had options especially if you own property or have shared assets or accounts
If you share a credit card, I would get your name off of his cards and make sure you are not linked up to his card in any way MY xh was always good with money until MLC..He started gambling , he put our thriving business in debt all without me knowing He also racked up a lot of credit card debt. which he never paid and because I took my name off all cards and seperated all accounts, they could not come after me-
In my experience with MLC and reading the stories here- I would strongly suggest to research/save any financial resources, and get legal advice anyway-
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