No. She will deny. Lie. Make excuses. I told someone earlier this week or last, even when I knew my W was in the bathroom for an hour and a half taking nude photos for OM, when I asked, why she made an excuse about having an upset stomach and digestive issues.

When you have proof you blow it up by saying: "I know what is going on." And then let her know she is no longer welcome in the MBR. If she doesn't move out, you move her out. You do not tell her how you know, or show her the evidence.

Accusing without proof will make you look weak and desperate. 95% sure is not enough in this case.

Again, what has changed from before the bathroom thing? Are you acting out of emotion, because you got hurt by her closing the bathroom door? Or from a position of strength (having irrefutable evidence of an EA)?

Last edited by Steve85; 07/18/19 01:11 PM.
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