What did I do to set her back. I don’t get it. The bathroom thing?
Yes. Pressure and pursuit will set you back 99.99999999999%. Again, we've all seen it before. This is why we warned you not to apply any pressure or pursuit. Even joejoe's advice was to give her some emotional support to see where it led, not to offer to get naked with her.
You touched the pot. You got burned. Learn from it.
Not sure I totally agree. You pursued and I totally agree that was a mistake. Yes you touched the pot and got burned - agree with that.
But other than the DB'ing mistakes that you made.
Your major fault was breathing air.
YOU DID NOT CAUSE HER ISSUES.
She owns them not you.
Stop trying to fix things you can not fix.
If I told you to step off a 50 story building and you would fly would you do it? And if you did it once and lived would you do it again?
You can not stop gravity and that is what you are asking to do.
