I remember the anxiety induced by all the uncertainty. I suppose we all do as we witnessed our seemingly sane spouses spiral into adolescent thinking.

We cannot control it and we cannot stop it but we must work diligently to protect against Expedite the meeting with the lawyer. Try hard to think of this as a business deal gone bad. Have you run a credit score check?

This is such an unromantic part to standing but so very critical.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced