There are definitely plenty of road blocks, and I wouldn't let her just come back without putting in the work. I think she has been seeing some kind of therapist, but I also think her friends are still a major influence on her life.
I'm not interested in her just showing up, sweeping stuff under the rug, etc.
I've also come to terms with it just being over. It still annoys me. It still feels unfair. But I'm okay, and I will continue to get better. And there's nothing she can do to stop me.
I hope she is coming around to stuff. But I know she's not ready. So I'm not in a hurry.
