The holiday may be a difficult one especially if he stays in this mood

I would get myself ready to expect anything and plan on being ok with everything-
Make plans to have fun with the kids no matter what mood he is in

They do say stuff to get a reaction, so you did great not allowing him to push your buttons

continue to do as your are..
you will know more as time passes and you see if he follows through with leaving

Did you get a consult with an attorney?
Are you watching the finances
very important to get all the information you can to protect yourself and the kids

MLCers change so quickly and the man we think we knew is totally gone-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow