Actually I’m kinda shocked my w is not physically attracted to me. If she is, man she is good at hiding it.
I believe you are still somehow in beta behavior around W. It is about your behavior, not your looks. How you respond and interact with her. You are letting fear control you. She senses this. Or you are pursuing her indirectly. Or a combo.
Have you read "the art of seduction" yet? How about "the four agreements"?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
