You have a really good point about the right fighters part Steve85. I have given that some thought lately. What's the point of always being right if you're miserable. That's why I put the politics down just decide to focus on me.
I'm really glad to hear you say this, and I hope you'll stick to it. I use to be pretty much one of those right fighters, but I discovered it didn't cause me to be loved more. In fact, it made me look unattractive to my H, so being right held very little to zero happiness for me.
Some former board members use to ask, "Is this the hill you really want to die on?" When it comes to our relationships and being right, we probably need to ask ourselves that question, cause something is going to die.....you can count on it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
