I will continue on with me and the children. I have decided to not try and find evidence relating to the probability of OW right now as it will only hurt me. We are going on holiday/vacation for 2 weeks at the end of the month, which is why I have decided to not snoop as I would like the children to have the best time.
H has said that he will be moving out when we come back from holiday, so I will wait and see if that actually happens.
I have also signed up for telephone coaching so hopefully will be able to gain advice/create a plan before we go.