I think the labor analogy is a great one. Because a woman has to birth the baby to get relief. If she doesn't and the baby decides to not come on the due date then the stress, emotions and pain continues. So a woman has to birth the pangs of the resentment, rebelliousness, and disrespect in order to move on. The other part that works well is a man/husband can't have the baby for his woman/wife, she has to do it all on her own, the physical part. So a LBH has has to treat his WW the same way, he has to let her birth the pangs caused by him, while he shows he's a strong, confident, and understanding man. If she says she don't want him to touch her ever again, he understands that, that's her feelings at the moment (while she's in labor), those feelings, can change once all the labor is through(once she births the pain of RRD(resentment, rebelliousness, and disrespect)) she will want him around again.
IMO, I think it works great. You probably can get better details, I never gave birth before, LOL
Joe
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.