I have been sticking to LRT for the past 3 weeks and GAL. I have taken up hobbies that I used to do before we had children, and have gone back to dance. H has shown an interest in what I am doing and has asked lots of questions. I have answered warmly but not enthusiastically. We have also watched tv in the same room which hasn’t happened for months. He also made a few excuses to touch me after dance class.
The next day however he was moody and withdrawn, trying to pick an argument. I haven’t changed my behaviour towards him and am continuing with LRT and 180s.
I have wondered whether he is trying to put me in the friends category or whether I am making tiny progress.
Also, I am pretty certain now that there is ow. I have no concrete evidence and have resisted snooping but if he is, should it be confronted in order to deal with it or do I carry on with me as I have been doing, showing him I am making a life on my own with the children.
