Anxious, Emotional Neglect, and LRT

[MrBrside]

I love reading this board as i then realise i'm not alone in the rubbish that the WW throw our way...

In your case Josh, the Relationship Scorecard, not handling critisism, interfering etc.. Ive had all of this, and the same scenarious ( plus many more )

I actually listed a lot of this stuff as points for improvement during my first MC session. From that the counciler brought up ( not in the session, but on a call before another MC session ) that the WW may have a cluster b disorder - ( BPD or Vunerable narsasism ) ...

Some of these have improved since I've been setting boundaries. The one thing i dont know is if she's aware of her reaction to critism. I'm not willing to test that now and have held back any critism for months in order to ensure no angry reactions or risk any chance of her feeling that nothing changes.

My WW actually told me once to never ever critisise her, as she will never forget it...

I read on a post somewhere that many a LBS assumes his WW is BPD or has vunerable narsasism..

One things for sure, your WW shows a lot of the traits mine had.. maybe she ticks other BPD boxes ?