It is so hard not to get my hopes up, but at the same time he didn’t say he wants to come home, he didn’t say he misses me, and as long as he’s living with her and not getting help, I guess I’ll just continue on my path (hard as it is) and leave him to fix his own mess.
It IS very tough. But listen to what he is not saying, and head it. That was a lesson I learned just this week with my H. The only thing you can do IMO to stay sane in all of this is to continue on your path to a wonderful you, and focus on the kids.
Originally Posted by Nyla79
I’m very confused now…It really is a rollercoaster
I'm on the same ride, and it doesn't seem to want to stop this week. Next time you MUST see him, see him with no expectations, and keep it just about the kids (or other important business). Perhaps even do it through e-mail or messaging only. It will help with those emotions.
