the ways of thinking can either make or break the outcome of the R.
Between W and I, I would like to believe we are on the upward swing towards recon. Trust and forgiveness seem to be two areas I need to put more thought into because with trust, I don't trust she has told me all of the truth about the past, but I do trust she wont cheat on me going forward. With forgiveness, I think my heart is there but my mind isn't, if that makes sense. Do I need to know specific acts to forgive each thing individually or do I forgive her behavior from the past to move on... so this is fresh with me.
I hope to gain the wisdom that you have. Thoughts usually turn into words and actions fueled by feelings. I hope to gain better insight into the ways of thinking where thoughts don't always need to reveal themselves or manifest into something damaging. With the ways of thinking I think about trying to understand the other person first before passing judgement or being quick to give our piece of mind.
I hope your posting here become less of a trigger as time goes on as we can always benefit from your perspective and wisdom.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
