Thank you IW but as you can see, we falter. I am human and so is she. I had started with this mentality of wanting both sides to understand each other and right now I will shift that focus off of me and onto her.
That's ok. I do too, and you are absolutely right, we are human. I can see now how far apart W and I are now and R seems like rainbows and unicorns at the moment for me/us.
Take a step back and breathe. Recon seems like it would be incredibly difficult - mostly because you both want it to work, and want the familiarity of what once was, but I would think so much has transpired in between that time that you have to take the small steps and inch forward one day at a time.
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I will say her boss is still in so much pain and I misspoke once when I tried to explain the boss’s cheating husband and his role as the walk away to her when it came to the no contact letter. It’s like trying to find when and where it’s appropriate to help support them in getting the info to better understand this so we can have some tools to use if not a better understanding.
I haven't been up on the recent parts of your sit - mine has been falling apart quicker lately - but I see that you are committed to trying to work it out.
