So it seems that wife's ea is not dying like I thought it was. It seems stronger than ever. They write poems to each other and I can judge by their responses to each other on how strong it is. Maybe what I saw a few weeks ago was the begining of the end. Who knows.
How do you know this? Are you reading her IMs/email etc? Snooping? Take is from me, this will lead to frustration and anxiety. I couldn't stop myself for the longest time. I still fall off the snooping wagon at regular intervals. This is when I feel the worst. I'm digging deep to break this cycle once and for all.
I hope that when you get your new job, you will be able to put more focus on YOU and your GAL activities. This will set you up to be a better partner if you R, or set you up to be in a really good place if you don't.
