Thanks everyone for your replies. They are very helpful. I wish I could post more but I am working 2 jobs and have very little time for anything but work and sleep. I am starting a new job next week that will hopefully allow me to leave my second job.

So it seems that wife's ea is not dying like I thought it was. It seems stronger than ever. They write poems to each other and I can judge by their responses to each other on how strong it is. Maybe what I saw a few weeks ago was the begining of the end. Who knows.

Wife seems to be cycling into anger again where just my presence makes her angry. I came home early yesterday to get some rest before going to job 2. She didn't like that so she called me a bunch of names and then left. I thought we were through this.

I have been doing dishes and she has been doing laundry. She hasn't done the laundry in a while though. It needs to get done. Should I just do everyone except her clothes or should I do hers too?