Thank you everyone. I really enjoy getting your advice and thoughts.
Things had been going pretty well for a few days last week. She talked about wanting to be ‘like’ a family during webchat. I immediately turned that down and explained that we are not a family and I didn’t want to pretend like we were. I was irritated at that and I know my emotions showed. I hope I did the right thing.
In addition, these past 2 days have been horrible. She has been so cold and just mean on webchat.
I am trying to get off her emotional rollercoaster and I feel that I am. I just don’t engage when she is in that mood. She sent a ridiculously petty text accusing me of not doing something, to which I just responded I’m sorry she felt that way. I also told her there have been several times that she wasn’t doing the same thing and I would appreciate her understanding in this matter.
Again, I hope that was the right thing to do.
I just don’t understand why she has the highs and then the lows so much and it frustrates me!
