No pessimistic, emotionally abusive wife, a couple nights to myself, and no kids 24/7. I thought I wanted to save the marriage. Now I don't care. Because she won't change and I doubt she'd accept the strings (boundaries) that would be attached to piecing.
Its strange how this just hits you when the rose coloured glasses finally fall off.. I loved my WW, but once i detached, i really started to see how emotionally abusive she was.. Lots of blackmail and rows if i didnt get her own way... Her favourite was "Why did you never listen to me?" - I always listened but refused to back down on stupid irrational decissions - what she really meant was "why did you never let me do x y z"... My WW would never change / accept boundaries either, so it made my decission to walk away easier. Keep it up
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
