Funny Uni. I just had one of those moments last night and this morning with W about blame shaming, gas lighting, never being satisfied, justifying her actions, accepting no responsibility and blaming me for not meeting her needs and demands, not kowtowing to her hissy fits, and calmly but deliberately just blew it all up last night and detonated everything, hit the eject button, blew the bridge and said F@$! It! We are divorcing and I am somewhat relieved.
IH I am going to get real with you here. Do you feel better now? All you did was prove to her that she was right the entire time. That this is the real you and the last 12 months was you being fake trying to control the situation. Why are you here? DB is about being the lighthouse and keeping the road home paved smoothly. AS has posted often that even MWD wished she would have stressed more that this process takes much longer then most people think. You just had to have the last word. Look man I am going to be honest with you when I say you have a ton of work to do moving forward. I stopped reading your posts because the majority of them are demeaning to women. If I can feel it here there is no doubt in my mind your W had to feel it. You have indicated that this has happened to you 5 times. I think you need to look at the common denominator. I know you say your are done and have never been better but I feel like we have heard that multiple times from you in the past. Instead of searching for articles that back up your story that all women are evil and vindictive, I think its time to look in the mirror and decide if you have been through enough pain and if there are any truly genuine changes you can make moving forward.
