IW, wouldn't getting married imply that we are "relationship" guys?
Good point, Steve. Kinda considering myself passed the old MR at this point so my viewpoint has shifted somewhat.
I meant it more inthe context of "single guys out for a good time" versus "guys that wait and are in it for the long haul"
Maybe I'm just too old school haha
I think most of the male posters on this site are relationship guys, that was my point. I am as about pro-marriage/anti-divorce as you can get!
But that doesn't mean you shouldn't do what works. DBing work. And Destroyd not being willing to show her that not only will he move forward without her, but that he will thrive in doing so, will cause her to continue to keep him in her back pocket, just in case. Sometimes not having a safety net will keep someone from jumping off the platform. As long as she feels he is securely in place as the safety net, she may jump as much as she wants. (Jumping being an analogy for affairs, etc.)
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
