LH is bang on - And its been said before.. Tough love.. Especially the horse thing...
To truelly detach, get her away from you.. She is using you / playing game -
I don't believe it will wake her up. I personally feel that she will just try different ways to expolit your niceness / character and come at it from other angles.. She likes her cake too much - with the icing on the cake being her friend, who validates her on every decission... She cant be in the wrong, its all you, hes a jerk... it cant be me !! - because best mate agrees with me..
Originally Posted by helpme12
Like i mentioned before, she has lost nothing
At the moment she has the best of every situation( in her twisted head )
She has the kids "when suits", she has you being "friendly / drinks / still being positive" , she has the OM / multiple OM, she has her new love pad, she has the horse at your place and she has the best mate validating her ever irrational thought.. But at the moment, this is her new norm and its what she wants...
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
