G - My best friend from K lives in Nashville, it's a very fun city. Go enjoy yourself! I was there last summer.

I wonder if some of this stuff falls into the love language category. If I remember one of yours is quality time???? Maybe he doesn't know how important it is to you. I assume he hasn't done the work that we all have so maybe that is a part of it? Could this be a learning experience for him?

You all go on vacation with his mom and son so that would tell me he does love you, care about you etc. I am not doing that if I don't love/care about someone. So I kind of lean towards this is who he is, the newness has worn off and he is comfortable. I think the coach could help him smile

How do you feel when you are around him? Happy, sad, on eggshells, like the only woman in the room????

I applaud you for standing up for yourself and expressing what you need.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018