Thanks for stopping by DnJ. Always love to hear from you, and appreciate your well thought out advice and encouragement.
Originally Posted by DnJ
I suggest you tell your adult children about their Dad’s living arrangements, etc. I’d tell them even if they were not adult. If you do not, when they find out - then what? You do not need to hide this. Stick to the facts, be sincere and honest - just be yourself. Your kids deserve the truth.
I think you are right. It's that fear again rearing it's ugly head. But, as I learned in my convo with H, fear won't kill me, and I give it much more importance than reality dictates.
I won't lie, I thought a lot about H today. Not so much about H and OW, just H.
I also thought about visiting my attorney to discuss options for a more formal separation agreement. There is no legal separation in my state, but we might possibly be able to negotiate a "post-nuptial agreement". I am, after all, realistic, and also love to be prepared in any situation. This mess is no different.
