There's a phrase in the codependency literature about people who become "wantless and needless". It's coping mechanism in people who have been raised with toxic shame. "The shame ridden personality may show up as one who is very compliant, lacking self will, and instead seeking validation from others through serving their needs and wants. This person becomes needless and wantless as they are ashamed of having needs and fearful of being shamed again by others for speaking up and having a demand to have their own needs and wants received by others."
It's VERY HEALTHY for you to have expressed your needs and desires. Don't fall back into being needless and wantless. We all know that you are extremely accommodating and it wouldn't really take that much to please you in this department.
Now, give him some time to process this. Make plans for yourself this week. Let him do the initiating. Don't mess with the conditions of the experiment - let him show you what he does with this information. (And to be fair to him, in the past when you have made your needs known, he HAS stepped up to the plate, so I do hold out some hope for the guy. )
