I wish I could do the forget part! If you figure out how, let me know. It sneaks up at times and just ruins whatever mood I am in. But, I'm getting better, I think just simple time between then and now helps out.
I postponed my trip one day so we could have a birthday breakfast with H before heading south. Also had a small party for H and my aunt (they share the same b-day) and bought him a surprise cake from his favorite ice cream place. I think it went well, he seemed happy. Also seems happy to be getting projects done around the house. Time will tell. I've been a bit cranky, too, think it is time to get the fighting boys back to school!