I don’t have experience with the house situation, so I will let others weigh in there.

As for Saturday night, I wouldn’t call your wife’s behavior “badgering.”

You were out exceptionally late for S1, she didn’t know where you were, so she texted you at 12:30 AM.

You said you were close to home, but an hour later you weren’t home so she tried locating you through GPS. Her behavior is all well within normal behavior for a parent.

For the sake of your son, I hope you can move past the tit-for-tat behavior.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16