I'm not dropping any home responsibilities and will either leave after kids in bed or arrange to come home late with permission of course.
Man, family lunches are like twice a month and I'm really close to the inlaws. There has been no formal announcement of BD but they aren't stupid and see we've not been in the same bed for almost a year. Giving that up is going to be way tough and will probably initiate family questions as it will be out of character. I'm the inlaw that is there the most. Will put pressure on W that's for sure.
This evening she wanted to watch TV together (after kids in bed). I declined and stayed in my room practising guitar all evening. No goodnight (she put herself to bed). Would have been awkward as we just came off a great last day of a family trip.
Curious if Steve85 or anyone else have an opinion on family lunches.