Hi Mal! Good to be back, trying to get life ogranized again!
Things seem to be moving along here, trying to make use of what I have learned through this whole process and therapy. I'm getting much better at saying what is on my mind even if it isn't what he wants to hear, in the end it seems to work. This seems to come up every day, I didn't realize what a wimp I had become.
I have begun to approach the subject about mending the rift between my sister and H. My S called him when he was moving out and gave her a piece of her mind, he is still very angry with her (that was October) and he seems to be entertaining the thought of doing a family vacation with them next summer for my Ps 40th anniversary. His last comment on S was that if she steps foot in this house he woudn't be here, so it looks like we are making some progress. We haven't been to see the T since May and this issue is really the only unresolved thing we have, not sure if I should press seeing T about it or leave it alone for the moment.
Just spent a week with my aunts and cousins, not my H's idea of fun, but he did it with a smile and I'm learning to be grateful for these acts instead of expecting him to just do these things.
