Destroyed... IMO...if you make a move and she is not in that same place, I think you will do more damage and I’m not sure it’s worth the risk. People say not to say “I love you” after BD because it only reminds your S that they don’t feel the same way. I think when LBS initiate sex, you run the risk of reminding your S they are not attracted to you. That could change in the future but it is definitely how the WS/WAS feels at BD. Remember...this is a marathon, not a sprint.
