Because I have no clue what I'm doing! I tried this morning- she thought I was being off with her. "We had a lovely day at the beach yesterday, why are you being off with me now?" How do I respond to that? I have no proof she's still messaging the other guy and she is certainly not going to admit to it. What if I'm wrong? I know shes cake eating but surely our relationship deteriorating if she thinks I'm constantly off with her isnt going to help things?