The psychologist appointment didn’t sound all that helpful for you. It is interesting the different views and beliefs people have regarding MLC. As you have heard before, until you actually see this first hand, it is kind of unbelievable.
You know her symptoms; you’ve seen it. I think you realize there is not “zero reasoning”. The reasons are pretty mixed up however, she doesn’t even have a handle on them. And she really cannot work on the marriage while she is a mess.
I’ve heard similar messages as the psychologist said. It never really reconciled all the signs and symptoms. MLC did.
I know the doubt that was thrown at you was not needed. Us LBS have enough self doubt as we are getting our head and heart wrapped around this, we sure don’t need more. Shake it off, resume your focus, and keep moving forward.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.