Originally Posted by Destroyd
So, I have a question. I am interested in pursuing some sex. Before I made a move, I thought that I should ask here first. It seems like things are a little better between us, but it has been such a long time. I feel like I am in the friend zone, and I would like to get out of that zone. Is there anything I can do to help with this? Other than intimacy, I feel like things are better. I could totally be fooling myself.


Destroyd, you won't like hearing this because no one ever does. Your only way out of the friend zone is to walk away. Your staying and not being in the friend zone, unfortunately, is not up to you. Your walking away is up to you. So your choices are, stay and hope one day you can attract her back to let you out of the friend zone, or walk away.

If you do ask for sex, expect the worst. DB principles say not to initiate. But that is up to you

Last edited by Steve85; 07/15/19 02:35 AM.

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