Hello Grace

Well done!

(((Grace)))

You handled yourself wonderfully.

I suggest you tell your adult children about their Dad’s living arrangements, etc. I’d tell them even if they were not adult. If you do not, when they find out - then what? You do not need to hide this. Stick to the facts, be sincere and honest - just be yourself. Your kids deserve the truth.

I know you are considering the purpose in telling them. Also what is the purpose in not telling them.

As I said just a suggestion.

You’re waking a really fine path. Compassionate and understanding. You so got this.

DnJ

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.