W has just admitted PA to me. Wasn’t surprised. Seems that I informed her she has been in an EA with him for a long time. The guy I thought it was too - a guy from her work who gets beaten by his W. Sounds about right... easily controlled and easily manipulated.
Will set up L meeting tomorrow.
Such a shame that she has taken this path - she is doing what she sees as best for her and nobody else gets a look in.