I, too, think you handled yourself very well and expressed your thoughts in a clear and concise manner. I am praying that your h will think often of the conversation and come to realize that the OW is not the key to his happiness.
I agree both w/what kml and Gerda have posted. Now, you need to step back and trust the process. I know it's hard to let go, but you have to put you faith and trust in the man upstairs to take it from here. You may not always see progress, but he is definitely working on your h. As they say "your h is a work in progress".
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
