I'm really struggling to stay strong and do the detachment/ 180. We had a lovely day at the beach with the youngest, we get on better than we have done in years, we can talk, she laughs when I tease her and vice versa. Shell punch me on the arm (playfully) and she held me saying I was warm and she was trying to warm up. But she's still adamant it's over. Talk about mixed signals. She's never off her phone so I wonder if it's the other guy but I know she isn't seeing him because he isn't local and she's never out long enough (plus I know she goes where she says shes been). Maybe it's the thought of being able to meet up with him or someone else that's driving her to split?