Grace, I think the conversation you had was amazing and full of blessings. God can heal anything and anyone, even all the things KML lists above. It's not about being Catholic or any other religion, though we know Christ offers something completely different. It's about trusting God with your life and everything in it. I don't know when you will be able to trust your H but I know when you can trust God. Now.

You did well and I am very happy for you. I dream of having a convo like that with my H. Or at least, I did. I am in a darker place now.

And yes, I think you are right to hear loud and clear about not bringing up anything anymore. You've said it and he can know now whatever he chooses to know. So now you can let go and trust the process, wherever it leads. He may well move in with OW, but she sounds perfect for this -- she will destroy it all by herself, just let her do it and keep being the wonderful Grace and grace that you are.

Love to you, Grace. I am happy for you, as hard as it was. You sound great and it went better than I thought it would. Now you need to pull a Phillipians 4, 4-9, esp 8-9.

XOXOXOXO


I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.