Yeah IHC sounds about right. Thanks I will start using that line.
LH I think you are absolutely right. I know she has been GGW. And is most likely looking/ has already found AP.
Not feeling very hopeful these days. I know my sitch hasn’t been more than 4 months since BD but I’m definitely feeling less hopeful than a few months ago. Still bouncing back and forth between wanting to file myself and giving it more time. Guess I will wait for now and see if I can become more certain on if I should just file. Idk part of me thinks that filing would be the best option at this point because she is clearly in no rush to D at the moment and knows that I haven’t decided to yet either. Scks being in this limbo/holding pattern, wondering what the outcome will be. Feels like she has all the control of the sitch and I don’t like that feeling. I know I just need to let my thoughts about it go away.
I’ve been good at detachment lately but had a moment when I brought my S home after a few days of W having him. For the first hour he acted like he didn’t know where he was and acted afraid and would cry if I stopped holding him. Fckin broke my heart. Feeling a lot of sadness/resentment toward W today just because of my S reaction. Tomorrow will be a better day I suppose. Thanks all.
Also should add that I plan on putting a down payment on a house soon. Obviously this isn’t an option right now because of possible/probably divorce incoming. Thinking about that maybe it’s best if I should just file so I can get a house sooner. Still need to be more certain though.
