^^^What they said^^^

Michele says in one of her books that she thinks it's OK to continue having sex as long as it doesn't cause you emotional trauma. If it does then stop. So basically it's your choice.

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She said afterwards she worries its giving me false hope


Great opportunity to listen and validate. "Yes I can understand why you might think that." Then if she actually asks you if it's giving you false hope you can reply with something like "no I understand your position, I would rather we work on the M but I will honor your decision and I understand that sex isn't going to change your mind."

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but I just intend to not mention it when she gets hone, if she mentions it, play it down.


Exactly, just go on like it never happened.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57