Dilly , I understand the eating thing , it’s hard but I found protein shakes and lots of milk helped but I wouldn’t do weights unless you think he might like the Arnold swazernega look wink

I think the bank thing was just thoughtless, when’s it’s brought up I bet he will be surprised how it has affected you .

I’ve said this before but I want to hear you doing a special GAL activity. Bungee , abseiling, motorbike jumping , cow milking , sea fishing , jet skiing extriodinairre (sp) experience. smile