Midlife wife crisis8

[Wolfman]

ToSmile what you wrote is my story I was that knight in shining armor to start and I needed up a servant that winds up getting kicked to the curb. Very sad how this happened. She acted like an entitled teenager the last year. As I did more I was told I was not doing enough. I deserve so much better. I became the servant, so sad I let that happen. You asked what do I need to do. I need to get my respect back. How I am not really sure.

R2C I’m not really sure what that means. The funny thing is I attract women all the time. I am tall and in shape have a great sense of humor and intelligent. Yet the one I want he most does not want me. So many of my female colleagues have told me my w is an idiot for doing this. Also, I won’t have a hard time finding other women. The funny about those 2 statements is they make me mad and happy at the same time. Mad because the one I want does not want me. Happy that other women think I am a catch. While I was away for my son’s hip hop competition a lot of the women said how great it is that I came considering what I am going through. So many complained that their husbands did not come yet I was there. So many see what a good person I am but my ex. Obviously I did things in the m that really bothered her enough to do this to our family. I’m sorry I am tired of repeating myself. I just need to learn acceptance, it will help me move on in my life. She is a lost cause and is “done”. D paperwork was done by the lawyer so I have to look it over and then I will be signing. It’s sad this August would have made 15 years of m. I will say being here has taught me so much. I am definitely a changed person. She is not. She is still the stubborn self centered person. I wish the “aliens” that a ducted my w would return her. But she is gone forever. There was one positive thing I heard from my w. A couple of moms were complaining how their h never go to these dance competitions. My w said, “oh no wolfman never misses anything for the kids.” I said thank you. She said well it’s true. It was nice to hear but I know it means nothing other than I am a good dad. Which is great don’t get me wrong. But that doesn’t mean she wants to get back with me.