Hey all, everything’s going well not much to report. GAL is going great, lots of new friends and out of the house almost everyday. Getting to a good place emotionally.
Been doing well with LRT, W has been calling much more recently instead of texting. I typically don’t answer now. She will then text if I don’t answer. Typically it’s unimportant things.
So as my S goes to the school my W works at, his tuition comes directly out of her paycheck. I sent her boss an email a few days ago asking for a receipt of the tuition as I am paying for some of it and want to see the actual numbers. Her boss told my W I had asked before she replied to my email. When I saw W during pickup the other day she started a conversation asking why I wanted that information.
I replied that since I was paying for some of the tuition I wanted to see where my money was going. She then starting asking, “have you talked to your lawyer? That sounds like you are getting ready to file. Are you going to file? Why do you want the receipt?”, and so on. I kept it short but said that I wanted it for my records as I am paying for some of it. She then asked again “are you going to file?”. I replied “you keep asking that. If that’s what you want to do, go ahead.” Then I ended conversation that, “I have to get going”.
She seemed very concerned that I was filing which was odd. So anyway my question is, how should I be responding to this question? Since she moved out almost 2 months ago now, she has asked if I am filing probably 6 or 7 separate times. Typically I respond “if that’s what you want do it”, or “I haven’t thought much about it”. I almost feel like this is a form of a temp check or something. Advice is appreciated. Thanks.
