Thanks guys. Yeah she is full of talk. Only real action to date was to leave MBR and announce separation. No other action has been taken. I was thinking of finding a D lawyer so I'm prepared but if no action has been taken l yet what is the advantage now? To know realistically what could happen? If she finds out wouldn't that just escalate things? If she handed me something to sign I'd totally be getting a lawyer. But now?
Her view is to secure property before moving out. She doesn't want to rent so clearly not that desperate to move out. Her period is coming up and heavy talks seem to always arise around that time. Which is now, of course.
My DB actions have included GAL and 180s and when we are back home (remember im on vacation atm) I'll be doing more GAL including a weekend away.
Yeah I've been thinking about the property thing over and over and will think of something. She tried to guilt about my promise to keep family house, but nothing was said about this new fantasy. I'll think of something but for sure I'm not letting her bully me into what she wants. Her D, she suffers the consequences. Kids are out of control today, don't think she realises how it will be when physically separated. Her fantasy is for me to move close by so that I can rescue her when kids are crazy. I've always said no when this talk comes up. It's weird how she is so sure how things need to end up. I'm really calm with kids and she isn't.
Anyway, thanks for reminding me, actions are what count. And no serious actions yet. I think back month by month and really not much has happened. Good reminder, this is just a blip.
Bali is most likely solo. I don't believe there is OM, as I haven't seen any scurrying into her bedroom in the evening like with her brief EA. What won't be happening is her asking me to take my leave so I can stay home with kids. That happened on her trip to Europe a few months back.
