New: Advice needed

[peacetoday]

Hi

I know how hard it is
the MLcer is very confused and will give us mixed messages
They are not sure what they want--all they know is they are unhappy and think that a new start can fix that
but
of course happiness is within not on the outside-

Nothing you did could have stopped this if its true MLC-
they are a time bomb

yes it good to see what mistakes we made in the M- change all we can
grieve, share our pain with a therapist and watch the MLCer to see what direction he goes-
You will know more later

and yes the florida trip may be difficult
Try to have fun and let the problems stay at home for now
try to live with the uncertainty of it all-

and take the best care of you right now
there are many u tube videos..on marriage, relationship advice, spiritual
Joel Olsteen is very good an d uplifting, Tony Robbins
all of these can be helpful in learning new behaviors, developing a positive outlook and creating a new life-
hang in
it will get easier