A quick question about 180/ detaching. We currently do somethings together like tennis. Should I stop that? It seems counter intuitive to not do things together we enjoy. Also, I do most of the cooking-it would just p!ss her off to say I’ll cook for the boys but not you. Finally I assume when she says things like “ when we have our own places” or “when we’re divorced” I shouldn’t balk but presumably join in and seem enthused by it?
